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starshadow_rivaulx ([personal profile] starshadow_rivaulx) wrote2014-01-04 09:28 am

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Slowly but surely coming out of a sort of hibernation.

Summary of events thus far (this cannot be a short thing, surely you know this about me by now?):

- I had a stroke somewhere around the top of December 2013 and had my first-ever confinement in the hospital. For actually getting to the hospital I am forever indebted to my best friend, and a merciful God who arranged things so that my goddaughter happened to be online to read the tweet I sent describing my condition. Who then promptly told her mother, who got on the phone and got it into my bemused brains that I had to get to the hospital like NOW.

So we got to the hospital, husband in tow, our roles reversed and him being the hand-holder for a change. Desi called in her neurologist, who called in her endocrinologist, and we got Ramon's cardio into the team; because, to put it fine, my signs were off the chart. High blood pressure, diabetes (sugar level at 300, which freaked everyone out but me in my benighted state), plus the stroke that sent me into the ER in the first place. PLUS evidence in the MRI scan of THREE PREVIOUS STROKES. Obviously when I do things? I do them in a big way.

Desi was a tower of strength - her experience as a survivor helped a lot; she must have had her hands full keeping me in a sane and calm mental state through all the endless waiting for test results and a hospital room. In the end, I was in hospital for about a week, I think - watched a lot of TV, learned to bear with the hunger pangs that came with a diabetic diet, with a few exceptions was not impressed with the quality of the nurses on the floor nor the janitorial services. Ramon, as designated watcher, was sent home at regular intervals to feed and water the kitty-babies; slept a LOT, and helped me change while I was attached to my IV bottle.

Frankly, I found it irritating that once I was detached from my IV, I couldn't ramble the full length of the hall like Ramon did when he was convalescing; because the door to my room would not lock. Pfui!

Then Dad called me up on the day before my discharge to say he was firing the cook. OYE CARAMBA WHAT. I wanted to cry so bad, but was afraid of raising my BP and getting an extended stay in hospital. My poor husband! I couldn't risk getting him into a dither either or there would be two of us in the hospalital. He still has a weak heart after all is said and done, and strong bad feelings could set back his progress.

In the end, the doctors figured that I could manage very well out of the hospital. So I learned to take insulin shots. I learned what I was and was not allowed to eat (though like Ramon, I have learned by trial and error how much of "normal food" I can safely eat per meal). Went through the whole discharge procedure and was picked up by my goddaughter. I must say she has evolved into a very capable young woman behind the wheel of a vehicle. She has the driving temperament of her mother. :)

That's the saga of my hospital stay. More to follow....
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[personal profile] girltype 2014-01-04 03:11 am (UTC)(link)
;___; omg. how incredibly scary and haunting and justttttt GAH! I can't! I wanted to cry after reading this! How intense! OMG. So glad you weren't alone and had people there with you when this all started, through out your hospital stay and everything else. Praying hard for you!! This is opening my eyes as to how I need to take care of myself!
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[personal profile] heartequals 2014-01-12 09:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh my gosh! I'm so sorry to hear that you've had such troubles over the holidays! Keeping you and your family in my thoughts <3

[identity profile] sharona1x2.livejournal.com 2014-01-04 01:11 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so glad you're doing okay! I feel for you, especially since my hubby has had his share of strokes. I'm glad your goddaughter was such a big help. *hugs*
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[personal profile] longtimegone 2014-01-04 03:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh my goodness! I'm sorry to hear about your recent health troubles. I hope you continue to recover quickly. <3 Will be keeping you in my thoughts!

[identity profile] ladyegreen.livejournal.com 2014-01-04 06:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Cindy!!! I'm so glad you are all right. I wondered where you were and if things were all right but this was quite a shock to read.

Keeps you in my prayers that there are no more strokes and that your health continues to improve.

How very scary.

*hugs you.*

[identity profile] cindyg.livejournal.com 2014-01-14 07:20 am (UTC)(link)
Oh sweetie - wait until you read the next set of entries (as soon as I muster up the strength to write them)! SPOILER: It all ended well, but getting there was pretty much like Game of Thrones for a bit.

*hugs and passes you tea*